surrogacy matching preferences
Surrogacy Matching Preferences: How You Choose Your Family
Surrogacy matching preferences put you in control. You decide what kind of family you want to carry for. Here is how the matching process works and what choices you have.
Quick Answer
- You set your own preferences for the type of family you want to carry for
- Rocky Mountain Surrogacy matches you based on your values, location, and comfort level
- You can choose to carry for international parents, local families, or other family types
- Matching often takes a few weeks once your profile is ready

How Surrogacy Matching Preferences Work
Your surrogacy matching preferences are like a wish list. They tell the agency what kind of family is right for you.
After screening, you fill out a short profile. It asks what you care about. What you value. What feels good to you.
Do you want a local family? Or parents far away? Both work. See international surrogacy steps for that path.
Want to carry for a single parent? An international family? Say yes to all or pick one. It is your call.
Rocky Mountain Surrogacy works with all types of families — including single parents, international intended parents, and couples from every background.
No one will push you. Your surrogacy matching preferences are yours alone. You stay in control from day one.
You set the rules. Your agency coordinator uses your preferences to find a family that aligns with your values.
What Preferences Can You Set
You have a say in many parts of the match. Here are the big ones.
Family type is the top choice. Carry for a married couple, a single parent, or an international family. All are welcome here.
Location matters too. Some surrogates want local parents. Others like parents from Spain, Australia, or Brazil.
Contact level is up to you. Want a close bond? Great. Want more space? That works too.
You can also set limits on embryos. Your comfort matters at every step of the way.
Read about why women become surrogates to see what drives this choice. Check the surrogacy matching timeline for how long it takes.
Your surrogacy matching preferences keep you safe and valued.
- Family type — married, single, or international parents
- Location — local, domestic, or international families
- Contact level — close bond or more privacy during pregnancy
- Number of embryos — your comfort sets the limit
- Cultural or religious values — shared beliefs can guide the match
The Matching Process Step by Step
Matching starts after you pass screening. Your coordinator takes your profile and looks for a fit.
First, the agency reviews your surrogacy matching preferences. Then they look at the parents on the waitlist who match what you want.
You get a profile of the intended parents. You read about them. You see their story. If it feels right, you say yes.
Then you meet. Most first meetings happen by video call. You talk. You ask questions. You see if the connection is real.
If both sides agree, the match is set. Legal contracts come next. Read about the surrogate application process to see what leads up to this point.
The Women's Health office has resources on healthy pregnancies. Once you match, your medical journey begins.
The whole thing feels personal. That is by design.
Rocky Mountain Surrogacy has been matching surrogates with families for nearly two decades.

Start Setting Your Preferences Today
Want to carry for a family that shares your values? The first step is to apply. Your preferences take shape during screening.
Rocky Mountain Surrogacy takes matching seriously. This is not random. Your team hand-picks families that fit you.
The agency has matched surrogates with parents since 2007. Local and international families all find matches here.
Tess Hine was a surrogate twice. She knows the right match matters. That is why this agency treats it as the top step.
Ready to set your surrogacy matching preferences? Apply to be a surrogate and start the talk today.
First-time surrogates earn a base of $60,000 plus monthly allowance and benefits.
Frequently Asked Questions
Can I choose what kind of family I carry for?
Yes — you set your own matching preferences with Rocky Mountain Surrogacy, including family type, location, contact level, and other values that matter to you.
What if I do not like my match?
You can decline any match before contracts are signed. Rocky Mountain Surrogacy will find a better fit with no penalty to you.
How long does matching take?
Matching often takes a few weeks once your profile is ready. Rocky Mountain Surrogacy has a large waitlist of intended parents, so qualified surrogates are matched quickly.
Can I carry for an international family?
Yes — Rocky Mountain Surrogacy regularly matches surrogates with families from Spain, Australia, the UK, Canada, Brazil, and other countries.
Do I meet the intended parents before I agree?
Yes — most first meetings happen by video call. You ask questions, get to know the family, and both sides confirm the match is right before anything moves forward.
